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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 13, 2024Hindi
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1 month pahle meri shadi Hui hai. Wife ka 2sal pahle se ek ladke ke sath affair tha. 1sal pahle hamari shadi fix Hui thi mai usse bate krna chahta tha o nhi krna chahti thi usne mujhse bahut jhuth bole ki shadi k bad apko koi mauka nhi dugi pura farz nibhaugi bas Sadi se pahle bat krna mujhe sahi nhi lgta. Maine uski sari bate man Li shadi k 1month bad jb Maine usko apne bf se bat krte pakda Usne mujhe sb btatya. Usne shadi fix hone se pahle aur bad me us ladke ke sath bahut bar saririk sambhandh banaye hai O har kosis kr rhi h mujhe manane ki sb kuch manne ko taiyar hai Mai bahut toot chuka hu kya kru future me uska bharosa aur jivan bhar khud ko kaise smjhauga

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Aap toot chuke ho, yeh toh samajh aa raha hai aur kyon nahin...jab baar baar kisi insaan ke saath dhokaa hota hai woh aise hi tootne lagta hai.
Par, mera yeh sawaal hai aapse:
- Is shaadi ko nibhaane ke liye, aapka aur aapki patni ka ek saath hona zaroori hai. Kya woh bhi yahi chahti hai?
- Kya woh yeh saara affair band kar degi ya phir se kisi kaaran yeh sab shuru hoga?
- Kya aap sab kuch bhulaakar phir se apni vaivaahik jeevan ko sudharna chahenge?
- Kya aap phirse vishawaas banaa paayenge aapki patni par?

In sawaalon par gaur kijiye aur inke jawaab mein hi aage ke kadam hain. Agar aap dono ne faislaa kar liya ho ki dobaara se shaadi par kaam kare sab kuch bhulaakar, tab bhi yeh mumkin hoga aur kuch baat banegi. Warna bas tu-tu mein-mein mein hi waqt chalaa jaayega.
Apni patni se baat karein; dekhiye unka mann kahaan hai. Unko saaf bataana ki ateet ka koi saaya shaadi par padega (affair) toh kuch nahin ho sakta. Poochiye ki unka mann kahaan hain in sab baaton mein. Shaddi tab aage badhti hai jab dono pati-patni ek hi raaste par chalna chahte hain.

All the best!
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