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Vaibhav Question by Vaibhav on Apr 04, 2025
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I earn 2.25 lakhs per month. But have liabilities like Loans and Credit card bills which costs me around 1.75 lakhs. 25-35K spend is on house hold chores and kids academic activitiesand hence I can invest only 15K in a month. Please suggest a way to get out of this debt trap.

Ans: You have shown great responsibility by still saving Rs. 15,000 per month despite heavy liabilities. That is a very good starting point.

Let us now look at this from a full 360-degree perspective.



?Understanding Your Current Cash Flow

Your income is Rs. 2.25 lakhs monthly.



Loan EMIs and credit card bills take away Rs. 1.75 lakhs.



Household and children’s expenses are around Rs. 25K to Rs. 35K.



That leaves a very tight margin. You are managing Rs. 15K for savings, which is good.



However, this situation is not sustainable in long term. Debt burden is very high.



You are already in a high EMI trap. There is no space for emergencies or freedom.



So, reducing debt must be your first and most urgent financial priority.



?Steps to Regain Control from Debt

Write down all your loans and credit cards separately.



Note the outstanding amount, monthly EMI, and interest rate for each one.



Identify which loans or cards have highest interest rates.



Usually credit card dues and personal loans have very high interest.



Target these high-cost loans first.



Try to stop using your credit cards for next 12 months.



Don’t make minimum due payments. They increase debt sharply.



Use the Rs. 15K savings as a focused prepayment tool.



Use it to reduce high-interest loans or card dues. Focus one by one.



Don’t split this Rs. 15K across many debts. That weakens the impact.



You can also take help of a trusted MFD and Certified Financial Planner to build a debt snowball plan.



?Build a Small Emergency Fund

Before you invest anywhere else, keep aside Rs. 30K to 50K as emergency fund.



Keep it in a savings account or short-term liquid mutual fund.



This will protect you from future debt in case of sudden expenses.



Don’t touch this unless for medical or emergency reasons.



Build this slowly from your Rs. 15K savings.



?Avoid Fresh Loans for 2 Years

Don’t take any new loan unless it is unavoidable.



This includes car loans, gadgets EMI, or personal loans.



Say no to buy-now-pay-later schemes. They reduce cash discipline.



For kids' education or family functions, try to plan in cash only.



?Discuss Loan Restructuring or Balance Transfer

Check if you can consolidate multiple loans into one low interest personal loan.



If any personal loan is at high rate (above 15%), consider balance transfer.



Check eligibility and processing charges before making this switch.



Avoid doing this frequently. Do only if cost benefit is clear.



?Review Spending Habits Closely

You are spending Rs. 25K to Rs. 35K on household and kids.



Sit down and list where the money is going in detail.



Can you reduce non-essential spends by 10% without affecting quality?



Use UPI and app tracking to monitor monthly expenses.



Cut any subscription or auto deductions not used regularly.



Check for cheaper options for school transport, food delivery, or online purchases.



Even Rs. 2K saved monthly will help reduce debt faster.



?Once Debt Reduces, Shift to Long-Term Investments

Once your high-interest loans are under control, shift your Rs. 15K to investment.



Select one good actively managed mutual fund through a trusted MFD.



Don’t go for direct funds. They seem cheap but need constant tracking and expertise.



A regular plan via MFD with CFP support helps in guided growth.



Start SIPs from your Rs. 15K only after emergency fund and basic loan reduction.



Don’t try to invest in index funds or ETFs. They follow the market and don’t aim for alpha.



Actively managed funds handled by good fund managers give better long-term results.



?Avoid Mixing Insurance and Investment

Don’t buy insurance plans that say investment + protection.



Term life insurance is enough for now. You already have it.



Don’t invest in ULIP, LIC traditional plans, or endowment products.



Their returns are very low and lock your money for long time.



?Talk with Family and Involve Spouse

Debt reduction needs household support.



Share your plan with your spouse or close family member.



Explain that next 24 months are for financial reset.



Ask their help to reduce non-essential expenses.



Together decisions are more disciplined and lasting.



?Review After 6 Months

Track your EMI progress every month.



Once in 6 months, check how much debt is reduced.



Adjust your plan if needed. Add Rs. 1000–2000 more if possible.



Once high-interest debts are gone, build long term SIP goals.



This shift from debt-reduction to wealth-creation is a powerful phase.



?Take Professional Help Without Hesitation

If things feel confusing or overwhelming, don’t delay.



Sit with a Certified Financial Planner for complete financial health check.



They will guide step-by-step with plan and discipline.



It helps avoid costly errors and speeds up your debt recovery.



?Final Insights

Your income is strong. That is a big advantage.



The issue is debt and expenses being out of balance.



You are already saving Rs. 15K monthly. That shows commitment.



Now, use it strategically for debt control.



Avoid new loans and credit usage for next 24 months.



Build an emergency fund to avoid future surprises.



After debt control, invest in actively managed mutual funds.



Always use regular plan through MFD with CFP. Avoid direct route.



Focus on disciplined money behaviour. That will bring peace and freedom.



Joyful and stress-free money life is possible. But needs sharp focus now.



Stay consistent, track progress, and involve your family.



Small steps today will create huge difference in 3 years.



Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment
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Hi sir, I am 29years old currently working in bangalore my monthly salary is 1,38000/- due to some personal family health reasons I have debts more than my montly salary atleast 188000 is required to pay only the PL loans and credit cards itself.. Is there any solution to get out of this debt trap...
Ans: You are 29, based in Bangalore, and earning Rs. 1,38,000 monthly.

You are in a tough phase now.
Your total EMI burden is Rs. 1,88,000 per month.

This is more than your salary.
That clearly shows a debt trap.

You are not alone. Many go through this.
But with strong steps, you can come out safely.

Let us now work on a 360-degree plan to regain control.

First, Accept the Reality with Calm
You are in a financial emergency.

This needs urgency, not panic.

You must stop all new borrowings now.

Borrowing more to pay EMIs will only worsen the trap.
A strong decision today helps your future.

Step 1: Prepare a Full Debt List
Write down every single loan and card.

Note principal, EMI, interest rate, and lender.

This includes all personal loans, credit cards, and dues.
Total it and understand where the pressure is coming from.

This gives you clarity and control.

Step 2: Categorise Loans by Urgency
Credit card debt is highest cost.

Personal loans are next priority.

Categorise like this:

High-interest (credit cards)

Medium-interest (personal loans)

Low or zero-interest (if any)

This tells you where to focus repayment first.

Step 3: Stop All EMI Auto-Debits Immediately
If your bank account is auto-debiting EMIs, pause it.

Let essential expenses like food, rent, and transport be safe.

Speak to banks and lenders.
Tell them about your cashflow issue.

Ask for a short break or restructuring.

Step 4: Approach Lenders and Request Settlement or Restructuring
Speak to each lender one by one.

Request EMI reduction, tenure extension, or one-time settlement.

Banks may agree to reduce interest or give grace periods.
If needed, give written letter with your salary slips.

Many banks offer restructuring under RBI guidelines.

This step is critical to stop the stress.

Step 5: Consider Consolidation Loan (Only After Advice)
Sometimes one loan can repay many small loans.

Interest may be lower than credit cards.

But this should be your last option.
And only after consulting a Certified Financial Planner.

Do not jump into it emotionally.

Step 6: Cut Lifestyle Expenses to Bare Minimum
Stop all subscriptions, dining out, gadgets, and shopping.

No vacations, new phones, or unnecessary travel.

Focus only on food, rent, power, and basic needs.
Even Rs. 5,000 saved monthly can go towards debt.

This lifestyle discipline will rebuild your foundation.

Step 7: Create an Emergency Survival Budget
Write your income and essential expenses.

Prioritise food, rent, utilities, transport.

See how much can be kept aside monthly for lenders.
This helps you build a negotiation base with banks.

Step 8: Sell Unused or Idle Assets
Do you have a second bike, gadgets, gold, or land?

Sell and repay part of loans immediately.

Even Rs. 1 lakh lump sum helps bring down credit card dues.
Don’t hold emotional value for things now.

Freedom from debt is worth more than any object.

Step 9: Get Help From Family or Trusted Friends
If your family or close friend can help, speak openly.

Don’t borrow, but ask for a support hand.

Explain the seriousness and give written repayment plan.
Use any help to pay off high-interest debt first.

Step 10: Increase Income Through Side Gigs
Try weekend freelance work or online skills.

Teach, write, design, or take delivery jobs.

Even Rs. 5,000 extra monthly can make a difference.
You are young and have time. Use it well.

Step 11: Stay Away From Credit Cards Completely
Credit cards give false comfort.

They multiply debt silently.

Cut and close them after full settlement.
Till then, avoid even swiping for Rs. 10.

Pay cash for all daily needs.

Step 12: Don’t Use Your Emergency Fund Yet
If you have one, keep it untouched.

Use it only for medical or survival situations.

Try to solve this debt issue with income and discipline.
Later, rebuild emergency savings as a priority.

Step 13: Get a Certified Financial Planner's Help
They can negotiate with banks for you.

They make proper repayment plans.

They guide on which loan to close first.
They also help protect your credit score.

Avoid solving this alone. You deserve expert help.

Step 14: Stay Strong Mentally and Emotionally
Don’t feel shame or guilt.

Health and family come first.

This is a temporary phase. It will pass.
But only if you stay calm and action-driven.

What Not to Do
Don’t take gold loan to pay credit card.

Don’t take payday apps or salary advances.

Don’t give up your job in stress.

These worsen your future. Choose logic, not emotion.

Final Insights
You are 29 and still very young.
But this situation needs action, not delay.

Debt of Rs. 1.88 lakh EMI on Rs. 1.38 lakh salary
is not sustainable.

You must reduce EMI or settle loans soon.

Pause all expenses. Talk to all lenders.
Start a new disciplined financial life.

With 12 to 18 months of focus, you can be free.
Then, you can invest and grow again.

Speak to a Certified Financial Planner today.
It is your first step towards peace.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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I have 2 App loans 36000 and 140000 + 2 credit card outstanding 95000 and 187000 (Both principal amount). I have bounced my all 4 EMI's since last 3 months due to job loss and my salary is peanuts. How can I survive with house chorus and paying EMI's. Please help
Ans: It is painful and stressful. But please know this — you are not alone, and you can come out of this. Let’s take this step-by-step.

You are facing:

2 App loans: Rs. 36,000 + Rs. 1,40,000

2 Credit card dues: Rs. 95,000 + Rs. 1,87,000

3 months EMIs already bounced

Low or no income due to job loss

Home responsibilities ongoing

This is serious, but manageable with the right action.

First, Understand What Will Not Work
Please avoid:

Taking new loans to pay old loans

Using other credit cards to pay EMIs

Borrowing from illegal or unknown lenders

Ignoring lenders and collection calls

Hoping the problem will disappear on its own

These will make your problem worse.

Step 1: Protect Yourself from Legal Pressure
You have already defaulted. That may lead to:

Legal notices from credit card companies

Harassment from collection agents

Credit score falling below 600

So you need to act fast.

Call each of the lenders yourself. Do not wait for them to call you.

Tell them honestly:

You lost your job

You are facing cash crisis

You want to settle and not escape

Ask for temporary EMI pause (moratorium) or restructuring

Lenders prefer talking to honest borrowers.

You may get:

Waiver of late fees

Reduction in interest

EMI holiday for few months

Option to convert dues into longer EMIs

Write an email also to them. Keep written proof.

This shows you are serious.

Step 2: Focus on Survival, Not Full Repayment Now
You must survive this phase first. Do only the must-do expenses:

Food and kitchen

Electricity and gas

Child or parents’ basic needs

Rent or basic housing

Cut all others:

OTT, Swiggy, Zomato, shopping

Eating out, subscriptions

Cab rides, mobile upgrades

Any premium items

Every saved rupee will count now.

Make a list of all expenses, and cut it to bare minimum.

Your mental peace comes before EMI.

Step 3: List Your Dues in Priority Order
Here is a breakdown:

App Loan 1 – Rs. 36,000

App Loan 2 – Rs. 1,40,000

Credit Card 1 – Rs. 95,000

Credit Card 2 – Rs. 1,87,000

App loans and credit cards have very high interest. Usually 24–40% per year.

But credit cards will affect your CIBIL score more if unpaid.

So give this order of priority:

Try to settle credit card 1 (Rs. 95,000) first

Then negotiate with credit card 2 (Rs. 1.87L)

After that, settle App Loan 1

Then App Loan 2

Why this order?

Credit card interest is high

Card dues snowball fast

App loans may negotiate faster than banks

Step 4: Ask for One-Time Settlement (OTS)
Once you show that you have zero income, some banks may agree to:

Close your loan at reduced principal

Stop interest from increasing further

Give you 3–6 months to pay off in parts

Ask for a written One-Time Settlement (OTS) letter.

Do not pay without it.

Once you settle, your CIBIL score will take time to recover. But that’s okay. Life first. Score later.

Step 5: Find Any Cash You Can
Please think deeply about the following:

Can you sell a scooter, old phone, gadgets?

Can any relative or friend help temporarily?

Do you have gold you can pledge (not sell)?

Any unused subscriptions or refund available?

Can you do part-time work for Rs. 300–500/day?

Every Rs. 500 helps your mental health now.

Avoid taking loans again. Instead, look for non-loan help.

Step 6: Get a Job, Any Job for Now
Even if it is not in your field, take any income work:

Delivery partner

Data entry

Freelance teaching

Typing work

Shop help

Online task jobs

Voice process

Focus is not on salary. Focus is to:

Keep cash flow coming

Feel responsible again

Stop going deeper into debt

Update resume. Ask friends. Join job groups. Apply daily.

Even Rs. 15,000/month will bring confidence.

You are not alone. Many professionals have started over.

Step 7: Emotionally Stay Strong
You may feel:

Guilt

Shame

Panic

Anger

Frustration

It is normal.

Please:

Talk to family or trusted friend

Keep one hour daily for walks, exercise or prayer

Sleep properly

Eat simple food, but on time

Avoid alcohol or substance use

This phase will pass.

Stay focused.

Final Insights
You are not a failure. This is a temporary financial emergency.

With calm steps, you can rebuild. Slowly, but surely.

Do this immediately:

Contact all lenders and ask for restructuring

Stop all luxury or non-essential expenses

Prioritise credit cards

Consider OTS if needed

Start small income work

Protect your mental strength

Once your income starts again:

Restart savings, even small

Use Certified Financial Planner later to rebuild

Learn how to stay debt-free in future

Take one step at a time.

You will come out stronger.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Sir igot 444 and AIQ is 131279 iam obc ncl (kerala) there is any possibilities for BDS in government college.
Ans: Nibla, A NEET score of 444 falls below the typical marks cutoff for OBC-NCL candidates seeking BDS in government dental colleges, where qualifying marks range between 520–540 for OBC students. Similarly, All India BDS closing ranks under the 15 percent AIQ for OBC rarely exceed 35,000, whereas your AIQ rank is 131,279, placing you far outside the viable admission range. Nationwide only about 3,000 government BDS seats exist, and premier institutions such as SCB Dental College (Cuttack), Government Dental College (Bangalore), and Tamil Nadu Government Dental College (Chennai) closed with AIQ ranks under 30,000 for OBC. Under Kerala’s 85 percent state quota, Government Dental College, Thiruvananthapuram admitted OBC candidates with ranks up to 51,595 in earlier years, while Kottayam and Kannur closed within similar state-rank brackets, implying state ranks must be substantially lower than your AIQ conversion would yield. Consequently, securing a BDS seat in a government college appears highly unlikely. Consider prioritising private or deemed dental colleges with lower cutoffs and participating in both AIQ and state counselling to maximise admission options. Recommendation: Focus on private or deemed dental institutions, as government quota thresholds exceed reachable marks and ranks. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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