My teenage son is stuck with his phone playing games and chatting on some app. He is in class 9 and struggling with focus, screen addiction, and mood swings. Can you suggest some yoga or mindfulness techniques to improve concentration, emotional stability, and sleep? I have tried cutting his screen time but he stopped talking to me. What should I do?

Ans: I understand your concern. At this age, forcing or cutting suddenly can create distance. Your son is not “wrong” — he is just stuck in a habit loop. First, rebuild connection, then slowly guide change.

What should you do first?
Talk to him calmly, not as a parent correcting him, but as a friend listening. Avoid blaming. Ask simple questions like, “Are you feeling stressed?” or “Is something bothering you?” When he feels understood, he will open up.

Now, introduce yoga and mindfulness gently:

Start with 5 minutes only – don’t force long sessions.
Deep breathing (Anulom Vilom) – improves focus and calms mind.
Bhramari (humming breath) – reduces anger and mood swings.
Simple stretches + Surya Namaskar (slow) – releases restlessness.
Trataka (candle gazing) – improves concentration.
Short meditation before sleep – helps better sleep.

Make it a family activity, not a punishment. Even 10 minutes together builds bonding.

Also, don’t remove phone completely. Instead, create small limits and replace with engaging activities like sports or music.

Most important, teenage minds need careful handling. Please don’t try everything on your own. A trained yoga and meditation coach can guide both you and your son in a safe, friendly way.

R. Pushpa, M.Sc (Yoga)
Online Yoga & Meditation Coach
Radiant YogaVibes
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